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Communication – the key to personal and professional success (Proceedings)

October 1, 2008
Mark Opperman, BS, CVPM

Communication is an underrated art.

Effective Communication — Communication is an Underrated Art

  • Integral Components

  • Verbal

  • Non-Verbal

  • Written

Verbal Communication

  • Tone of Voice

  • Timing

  • How timing can be used

  • Atmosphere

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  • Normal client interaction

  • In-hospital problem situations

  • Speech Clarity

  • Succinctness

  • Verbose

  • Pointed discussions

  • Why Clients Stop Coming to Our Practices

_______ % Die

_______ % Move

_______ % Change Because of a Friend's Recommendation

_______ % Competition

_______ % Dissatisfied with Product or Service

_______ % Attitudes of Indifference by Some Employees

  • Customer Complaint Behavior

  • The TARP Study

  • 96% of unhappy customers do not contact the business that upset them. For every complaint received, the average company has 26 customers with problems, 6 of which are "serious."

  • Complainers are more likely than non-complainers to do business again with the company that upset them, even if the problem isn't satisfactorily resolved.

  • Of the complainers, between 54 and 70 percent will do business again if the complaint is resolved.

  • 95% of customers will do business with a company again if they feel their complaint was quickly resolved.

  • Complainers who have had complaints satisfactorily resolved tell an average of five people.

  • The average customer having a problem tells 9 to 10 people about the incident; 13% will tell more than 20 people.

People Want To Talk To People Who

1. Appreciate Them

  • Show appreciation; tell them what you appreciate

  • Use the words: "I appreciate...", "Thank you for..." or "It helps me when you..."

  • Everyone wants to hear they are important and appreciated

  • Always be polite

  • No judging

  • No challenge

  • No name calling

  • Use suggestions: "Did you notice...?"

  • If face to face, when a person approaches the desk, show interest by looking up, standing up, or approaching the person and asking, "How may I help you?"

2. Understand Them

  • Don't stop at the words, "I understand..."

  • Continue with WHY you understand

  • Use the same words they used; repeat them

  • Name the feelings: "I understand you are upset that your check hasn't come."

  • Give the reason why they are upset

  • Sympathize — use a personal remark

  • Ask questions to get more information

  • React positively to the client non-verbally with gestures, facial expressions, or tone of voice

  • Respond clearly with answers that are easily understood; avoid jargon

  • Remain non-judgmental and objective

  • Remember, if the client is angry, you are not at fault

3. Will Help Them

  • Say it: "I will try to help you..." or "I will find out for you..."

  • It only takes a minute longer to really try to help

  • Never refer to company policy

  • Go the extra mile

  • Volunteer information up front before the client or customer can ask for it

  • If you don't know, say so: "I don't know, but I will try to find out."

  • "However," "but,", "so," "any" —all are conditioning words

4. Use Their Name

  • The sweetest words in the language are a person's name, so use it: "Yes, Mr. Smith..." or "Mrs. Jones..."

5. Are Creative

  • Try to help

  • Control the conversation by using concepts

6. Are Honest

  • If you don't know the answer, say: "I don't know."

  • Give personal remarks where appropriate

  • Don't fake a sugary sweet voice, but always be pleasant

7. Listen To Them

  • Communication Behavior

_______ % Writing

_______ % Reading

_______ % Speaking

_______ % Listening

Listening Skills

  • Identify Purpose of Communication

  • Persuasive

  • Informative

  • Sharing

  • Social

  • To Listen Actively

  • Focus eyes

o On person, if face to face

o On paper or CRT, if at desk or on the phone

  • Be mentally alert

  • Overcome distractions

  • Ask open-ended questions

o Who, What, Why, Where, When

  • Prepare in advance

o Have script ready

o Have file ready

o Think of remarks and questions in advance

  • Turn off your own worries

  • Interject listening responses such as "I See..." and "Yes"

  • Listen for ideas

  • Limit your own talking

  • From time to time, try to clarify what has been said by making a statement or rephrasing the question

  • Listen For Comprehension

  • Alternate speaking with listening in order to clearly understand the question; interrupt only to ask a question

  • Limit your own talking

  • Think like the client — remember to keep his/her point of view in focus

  • Make notes

o Write as client talks

o Clarify what you have written

  • Work at meaning

  • Ask questions

  • Don't engage in other tasks while talking to clients; give your full attention to the other person while he/she is speaking

  • React To Ideas

  • Control emotional reactions

  • React to ideas — not to the person

o Don't become irritated at things he/she may say . . . or at the manner in which they say it

  • Don't jump to conclusions

o Avoid making unwarranted assumptions about what the client is going to say

o Avoid mentally trying to complete the client's sentences

o Remain non-judgmental and objective

Non-Verbal Communication

Negative Positive

Facial Expressions:

  • Tensing and wrinkling forehead_______________________________

  • Pursed, tight-lipped mouth_______________________________

  • Swallowing repeatedly_______________________________

  • Clearing your throat excessively_______________________________

  • Insincere or inappropriate smile_______________________________

  • Wetting your lips_______________________________

Eye Contact:

  • Staring fixedly_______________________________

  • Blinking rapidly_______________________________

  • Not looking at_______________________________

  • Shifting head and eyes excessively_______________________________

  • Squinting_______________________________

Gestures and Postures:

  • Covering mouth when speaking_______________________________

  • Scratching head_______________________________

  • Rubbing eyes_______________________________

  • Rubbing back of the neck_______________________________

  • Preening_______________________________

  • Tinkering with jewelry_______________________________

  • Adjusting clothing_______________________________

  • Shifting weight_______________________________

  • Wandering or pacing_______________________________

  • Freezing_______________________________

  • Crossing arms_______________________________

  • Angling head_______________________________

  • Hostile stance_______________________________

  • Looking down on someone_______________________________

Other:

  • Nervous laugh_______________________________

  • Irritating tone_______________________________

  • Mumbling_______________________________

Written Communication

  • Appropriate Means

  • Care of Your Pet Following Hospitalization (Discharge Order)

  • Medical Care Plans

  • Surgical Consent Form

  • Pre-Exam Checklists

  • Lifetime of Wellness

  • Puppy, Kitten & Exotic Biographies

Telephone Etiquette

  • The First Client Contact

  • Good and Bad Responses

  • How to Use the Telephone Conversation to Your Advantage

Client Communication

  • What are the Most Appropriate Forms of Communication for:

  • Policy changes

  • Changes in hospital procedures

  • Levels of Communication

  • Defining that level (carefully!)

o Arbitrary

o Infantile versus intelligent

o Pseudo intelligent

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